It would be nice if you could disable the quicktime player in 2Web to use it as a song display/selector only or full player at the 2Web users choice.

well it doesn't have to use QuickTime. there are so many different browsers and OS's i did my best to make the default embed use the best available plugin.
You can customize the 2WEB player to something different in 2WEB Options. maybe what you want to do is make it show a link instead of a player.
<a href='#MediaFile#'>Play File</a>
so when you click the link it opens the default program for the file type on the system instead of embedding a player in the page.

I'll try that